How to Flirt With Men

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He thinks it is going to be complicate
Dating can sometimes be a hassle. The risk of dating someone
who becomes clingy, possessive or very jealous is quite big.
His mind is busy with something else
He is still finishing a relationship, or too busy with a
professional challenge. An interesting fact: 50% of guys in the
UK affirm to be sometimes too stressed up to have sex. To
date you need space and inner freedom.
The solutions?
Step 1 - Make it very, very clear to him that if he approaches
you, you'll say yes!
Step 2 - Be a problem free zone. Act like one. Be one. Focus
on fun and enjoyment. Show him you are fun to be with.
Step 3 - Timing is everything. Follow you instinct with that
one. Jump in at the right moment!
Enjoy the opportunities!
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Do guys give mixed signals? Do they play
games?
Yes! Sometimes guys give mixed signals and play games.
It's not a bad thing though.
They simply won't give you straight answers and keep on leading
you on sometimes.
This happens a lot with dating and it is good to find out soon if this
happens to you.
If what he says does not match reality, then it's a serious hint.
For instance if a guy says he wants to spend his life with you but
then dates another girl, take it as a hint!
There are plenty of indications when these things happen.
Dare to double check what he says and open your eyes.
Don't play blind with these situations.
It is okay to be in the middle of it as long as you don't get carried
away by these games.
Stay on top of it.
See and observe what is truly going on.
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Can you intimidate guys?
Guys can feel intimidated if you radiate lots of power, confidence or
assertiveness.
Being rejected by a girl is usually not something they enjoy.
A model on a catwalk for instance is intimidating because there is
this high sense of confidence, no smile, gorgeous looks, etc.
If you wear lots of black or look like a top executive, it can be
intimidating as well.
If you want to be more approachable, you can soften the way you
dress, smile often, establish eye contact and develop a friendly
attitude to anyone you meet.
Simply show that you are open to meeting new people and that you
won't reject anyone who approaches you.
Would you?
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I don't get it! Do guys prefer bitchy girls?
Guys love confident girls.
It is true that a girl who is not challenging in any way will quickly
sound boring or average. I know it is tough but it is the same the
other way round.
Wussies are not attractive.
They sound weak and surrendered.
Wussies will become your best friend but for a lover, you'll look
usually further.
You'll look for passion and confidence, right?
So, as a girl you can keep on questioning it or you can simply go
with the flow and give guys what they want.
If you are in doubt, try and experiment.
Dating attitudes are like a shirt you put on.
All are authentic.
They are all you!
You simply decide what role you want to play in a guy's life.
You try things and see what works and what doesn't.
You will often notice power games.
If a guy is an easy "catch" strangely enough you loose interest very
fast.
It is instinctual.
Have you seen a cat playing with a mouse?
It is the same type of game.
They pretend the mouse will run and then catch it again.
Why is that?
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Because it wakes up thrill and excitement.
It wakes up challenge, thrill, conquering drive, etc.
Why do people compete in sports?
Because competing wakes up energy in your system, in your mind
in your body.
It makes you feel alive!
It is thrilling!
If you compete and always win easily, you loose interest and in a
way don't expand your potential.
On the other hand, if you are challenged, it forces you to go deeper
and surpass yourself.
Dating works in a similar way.
If your target is too easy and misses this dimension of challenge,
you tend to loose interest.
There are different ways to challenge a guy.
There are different ways to wake up excitement and thrill in him.
Now, if you see guys attracted to certain feminine styles, learn from
it and expand your skills.
Try it and see what works.
It is human nature and it is there for a reason.
Dare to play the game!
You'll be amazed of what happens when you do.
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